There are friendly and not-so-friendly divorces. But if your ex-spouse can’t pay the mortgage because he lost his job, should you step forward and offer to pay off the remaining amount and give him the house just to be completely done? What’s the price of being done? What would you do?
Q: I have been divorced for eight years. My ex-spouse still lives in the house we both own. I was okay with it for a long time, but now my ex-spouse is out of work and can’t pay mortgage. And, of course, both our names are still on the mortgage.
In our divorce agreement, we both agreed that he would be allowed to stay in the house for a year. After the year, we would sell the house and split the money. He can’t seem to move and I don’t want to take him to court. I’m willing to have him keep the house. I just want to pay off the mortgage and get my name off of it as it is the only thing keeping us in contact.
If I pay the loan off (the balance is less than $5,000), will that release me from all responsibility regarding the mortgage, deed, property taxes etc if he still lives there?
A: You’re kind to let him keep the house and even put more money into the pot well beyond what is called for in your divorce settlement.
Here’s the good news: You’re right. If you pay off the mortgage, you will end up no longer having any responsibility relating to a loan on the home. But you’ll still need to give your ex-spouse title to your share of the home. As you are both still owners on the home, you’d want to convey your ownership interest to him.
Once you no longer have a loan on the property and you no longer have an ownership interest in the home, you’d be free and clear of any responsibility relating to the home.
You can order a payoff letter (also called a demand letter) from the lender and send the lender the exact amount owed on the loan by the date required under the payoff letter. Once you’ve done that, you’ll be done with the loan. Simply call the number on your mortgage statement and order the payoff letter. Follow the instruction on the payoff letter to make sure that the lender gets the right amount by the right date.
Once you take care of the lender – and you can take care of the lender and the title to the home at the same time – you can have a quit claim deed prepared conveying your interest in the home to your ex-spouse. You can take it a step further by recording or filing that quit claim deed with the local office where the home is located that handles property records. Recording the quit claim deed puts the world on notice that you no longer have anything to do with the property.
With the deed recorded and the loan paid off, you should, in theory, be done with any responsibility relating to the home.
If there are other liens on the home or other issues that relate to the home that came up during your ownership, you could still have some responsibility for those issues. However, those issues are usually rare. For example, if someone tripped and fell on the property while you owned it, the insurance carrier you had while you owned the home would cover that claim, but the person that sued would have sued you and your ex-spouse. You would have been sued as an owner of the home.
As you approach this issue, you might want to make sure that you do a little digging to make sure there are no unexpected surprises once you put money into paying off the loan and transferring ownership of the home to your ex-spouse. Good luck.
©2017 by Ilyce Glink and Samuel J. Tamkin. Distributed by Tribune Content Agency.
Ilyce Glink is the creator of an 18-part webinar+ebook series called “The Intentional Investor: How to be Wildly Successful in Real Estate,” as well as the author of many books on real estate, including the upcoming fourth edition of 100 Questions Every First-Time Home Buyer Should Ask. She is the CEO of Best Money Moves, an app that employers provide to employees to measure and dial down financial stress. Samuel J. Tamkin is a Chicago-based real estate attorney whose website is SamTamkin.com.
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